Resolve conflicts, learn to love, make it last forever.

Level IV, specialization. Online, 4 weeks. With tutor support throughout. 


Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries.
Without them humanity cannot survive.
– The Dalai Lama


Week 1 The fundamental basis of a partnership. Getting in touch with each other. Role-playing in relationships and how to let your roles go.


Week 2 Conflicts, false expectations and tensions in your relationship. Practical ways to resolve problems once and for all with Lucidity.


Week 3 The feeling of true love. How to recognise and cultivate that loving feeling from day to day.


Week 4 Love, sex and Lucidity. Experience sexuality in a new way. Bring devotion and fulfilment into your life.

All we need is love! But we are not born with the innate ability to find it, to cultivate a long-term, close and happy relationship, and to develop a fulfilling sex life, and these are not things that are taught in schools. In fact, lasting love is a privilege that seems to have become rare in Western society.

This online course looks at the anatomy of a relationship, how strong partnerships are formed and maintained and how, after the first flush of romantic love is gone, you can transform your relationship, going ever deeper together in trust and contentment. You will learn how to resolve relationship and emotional problems, how to find an equilibrium in your partnership without suppressing your partner or yourself, how to find closer sexual intimacy, and how to overcome practical daily-life obstacles by making lucid, responsible decisions.

When you finish this course you will see your relationship more clearly through the lens of Lucidity. You will understand in greater depth what causes conflict, disharmony and discontent, you will be able to move closer to your loved-one, grow together in understanding and empathy, start to enjoy a relationship that is everything you want it to be.

The course is offered to all those interested in cultivating love, contentment and a deeply intimate sex life. LGBT participants are warmly welcomed.


Dirk de Sousa, psychological counsellor, author

As an original voice in modern psychology, the bestselling author unlocks personal insight and self-knowledge, guiding you in the search for an end to psychological suffering, for emotional resilience and contentment in all spheres of life. For decades, de Sousa has worked successfully as therapist, coach and consultant, numbering among his clients many well-known names in politics, the media and international business. He has also guided athletes and coaches at both national, international and Olympic level, and provided counselling to couples and to parents of children
in crisis. In his first book, The Self Beyond Myself, de Sousa argued that the first step to contentment is to gain real insight into our own inner self with the right form of self-reflection.


The capacity for this insight, which also includes the ability to recognize what we encounter within, enables us to fully understand ourselves and then to realize our
full potential. He terms this capacity, ‘Lucidity’.In his most recent work, de Sousa breaks down Lucidity into four qualities – contentment, mental clarity, self-reflection
and mental maturity – and shows how it can be objectively measured and improved, leading to a greater degree of mental freedom, inner unity, and real and
enduring contentment.

Sexuality is one of the ways that we become enlightened,
because it leads us to self-knowledge.

– Alice Walker


Simply click Register Now and choose your start date on the next page. You will then receive an email containing joining instructions. After the start of the course, you will be able to follow it, step-by-step at a time that suits you. You will also be able to access the material wherever you want – in the privacy of your home or on the move, on your computer, tablet or smartphone. Your course tutor will be checking into the course forum periodically for the duration of your course. 


  • 4 exclusive videos of Dirk de Sousa in conversation made especially for this course
  • 16 further articles, recordings, exercises
  • Your personal invitation to the course forum, where you will meet other participants and the course tutor.


  • Take responsibility for your relationship
  • Discover how empathy can work for your partner and for you
  • Embark on a deeper and more intimate sex life
  • Learn to overcome obstacles together
  • Balance your relationship – practice equality
  • Start to experience love as never before

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